Woman’s Love… eternal gift

Love - a word beautifully signifies the connection, expression of attachment between two or more. It makes the meaning of relationship where two or a group to be conjugated with each other. In our life, we find the bond in two different ways. Sometimes we create the bond, sometimes we get bonded naturally.

When we get life, our identity is null to ourselves. Being unfamiliar about the relationship, connection, attachment just we smile, through our expression towards the existence. But gradually with the instruction and guidance of the surroundings we get familiar about the same.

We get bonded in some relationships which are universal and natural, such as relationship between parents-children, brother-sister, brother-brother and sister-sister. These relationships we get as per the creation of supreme power-God. We don’t have any choice to create the relationship here; it is just readymade gift to us. It is universal.

But apart from these readymade relationships, we create one more relation in our life
that is when we marry. Though we say, Marriage happens in Heaven or Pairs are made in Heaven, we make this relation as per our choice. Here we get enough options to be bonded in this relationship.

In this marriage relationship, though a man is known as chief of the family, have we ever thought about the woman’s dedication towards her family or the relationship she is also bonded with?  Honestly to say NO! Since a decade women are bound to cater themselves according to their chief of the family. It is always a secondary matter to a man to know what the thoughts of his married woman are carrying, what is the emotion she carrying towards him or his family, but the primary is-he the boss. Very honestly to say it is a bug, irrespectively a literate or an illiterate family. In both the cases man is found to be rigid towards their woman. If he is literate enough, will not allow her to share her thoughts, express her feelings; in another case her life is totally devastated.

But the delectable part of this relationship is the woman’s Love towards their man. She will not stop to cater her love, her duties to him, in any situation however he behaves with her, how extreme he stretch a boundary.

In our normal life we might have come across with a incident to see like: he is drunker, every day drinks, comes home, shouts and tortures her due to not get fulfilled with his needs or after drinking loose his conscious and not able to reach home being fallen somewhere in any corner. Here she is the one who runs to search around and get him back to home, even knowing that she will be tortured again by him only. She does so again and again, knowing about the truth and fact of her routine life.

Why? Relationship! Cause her love and respect towards the relationship in which she has got bonded forever. After getting detached from her all other natural relations, she gets married with someone and knows that this is the one relation where she is bonded for forever and liable to spread her love.

The truth is in certain point of time the natural relationships break or stop. But the bond is made between him and her nothing but marriage is for forever. In this bond however they are, but they are made for each other. This is genuine and eternal gift towards each other.